“Too much of a good thing can be wonderful.” Which can be very true. But sometimes, for your partner, it can just be too damn much. If you’re packing large down below, the trick to good sex is twofold: control the depth of penetration, and stay away from her cervix. Here are some ways to make sure your partner comfortably enjoys all you have to offer.
The Flying V
With you kneeling, the trick to this position is finding something slightly lower than your hips to prop your partner’s behind on, like a sturdy coffee table or a pile of pillows. Have her sit on it and make her legs into a V-shape. When you enter her downward like this, it keeps you from going super deep. She’ll get the feeling of being well-taken without being impaled.
The Cherry on Top
Have you partner lie on top of you on her back. and enter her from behind. This position has a semi-awkward angle that keeps you from hitting her too deep, but still strokes the sensitive top side of her vagina. Even better: She can lube her upper thighs so they stimulate your shaft with every thrust. You also have direct access to finger her clit from here, which is always a bonus.
The Stand and Deliver
Stand facing each other and have you partner lift one of her legs, wrapping it around your waist. Enter her standing like this (you may have to squat a little).
The Thigh-High Straddle
Hard to imagine that something that starts with sitting cross-legged could be so hot, but trust us. Sit cross-legged on the bed, and have your partner straddle you, using your raised thighs to support her butt so you don’t go too deep. She controls the thrusts (control = good): she can go slow and rock back and forth, letting you slowly in deeper.
The Horny Crab
Warning: This position is not only way advanced, but involves being in that crab walk position from grade school gym class. With you in the crab walk position, have your partner stand straddling your hips, squat down to let you enter her, then lean back onto her hands so she’s in a crab walk position too, with you inside her. Yeah, it’s kind of funny seeing each other doing a naked crab walk, but you’ll both forget that immediately when she leans back and starts thrusting against you.