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18+: How to Spice Up Your Sex Life in 30 Sexy Ways

Is sex getting boring or monotonous? Not anymore! Try these 30 tips on how to spice up your sex life and you can bring the sizzle back in no time.

New relationships are always exciting, especially when it comes to sex.

The whole act of exploring each other and experiencing new together times in bed can be a rush that few things can ever give you.

In a perfect relationship, your compatibilities have to be perfect and the sex has to be awesome.

It’s quite a bit of a contradiction though.

Relationships need time to build trust and compatibility.

On the other hand, sex starts to get repetitive after a while.

How to spice up your sex life

If you’re in a relationship for a while, find new ways to spice up your sex life and keep it interesting.

Having sex with a new partner may feel great, but there’s nothing better than getting innovative in bed with someone you love and understand completely.

We live in a kinky world and what works sexually for one couple may not always work for another.

Find your own ways to excite each other in bed. However taboo or crazy it may seem, as long as both of you enjoy it and it doesn’t affect your relationship or anyone else negatively, you really have nothing to fear or lose.

If you want a few tips on how to spice up your sex life, here are 30 great pointers to get started in the right direction.

#1 Have an affair with you partner. Plan a date with each other and pretend like both of you are having an affair. You’ll never realize how sexy it feels until you try it. Meet each other in a restaurant and seduce each other like two lusty lovers.

#2 Role play in bed. Dressing up as someone else is an easy way to enact all your secret fantasies without having an affair. Try being a doctor and a patient, a professor and student, or even a soldier and a journo.

#3 Think teen. You may have fallen in love as young teens. But that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t behave like one now and then. Get creative and behave like eighteen year olds over a weekend. Dress like one, hang out in places you used to, and make out like teens!

#4 Add more foreplay. One of the best ways to have great sex is by focusing on foreplay. Spend 15 more minutes on making each other horny before having sex. Both of you will end up having better sex. Caress and compliment each other’s bodies during those 15 minutes.

#5 Make sex an impromptu, unpredictable act. As hard as it may seem, avoid planning ahead for sex or scheduling time for sex unless both of you are on very busy schedules.

#6 Be shockingly innovative and flirty. As the relationship matures, you need to come up with new ways to get innovative. Indulge in something that gets your heart racing and your sex life will get super sexy.

#7 Get sexy things into your bed. Bring in new excitement into your bed. Visit your local pharmacy or an adult store and bring in sex toys, lubes, pheromones and anything else that works to reinvigorate your senses.

#8 Feel sexy. Look good and start working out if you have to. Pamper yourselves with fragrant scrubs, sexy lingerie, and get yourself a new hair cut. Feel sexy, and you’ll look sexy.

#9 Bring your wildest fantasies alive. Just because you’re in a long term relationship doesn’t mean you have to refrain from enacting your fantasies. Talk about it with your partner and indulge in them together.

#10 Practice abstinence. If you know you can have sex whenever you want, it’ll lose its charm. Avoid having sex now and then, and save it for days when you go clubbing or indulge in something exciting. Plan this right and it can be a huge turn on.

#11 Surprise each other sexually. Surprise your partner into a sexual high now and then. Surprise him by receiving him naked when he comes home, or tell him that you’re not wearing your panties under the short skirt when both of you are out having dinner.

#12 Think beyond the bed. There are many sexy places to get naughty besides the bed. Think kitchen, couches, bathroom, backyard, or a pool. Get innovative and the sexual rewards will be more pleasurable.

#13 Add food and beverages. Bring food into bed, or cook together. Aphrodisiacal food can make lovemaking more romantic, and a few drinks can make both of you drunk and horny.

#14 Sensual massages. Get naked and give each other a sensual massage without focusing on sex. Pleasure each other and let the fingers linger a while in the tingling spots. As long as the focus is on helping your partner orgasm, it’ll make both of you feel good.

#15 Have tantric sex. Introduce tantric sex into the bedroom to have a passionate and intense sexual experience.

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