Facing Your Fears : The Best Medicine To Success
“Oh no! I can’t do it.” Says who? You’re thinking that you can’t do it, have you even tried to do it but failed?
You cannot conclude whether you are going to succeed or fail at something before beginning it. Before you can accurately predict the end of something, you would have started and get involved in that thing first. And even then, you might still not be able to correctly predict the end until the very end.
DON’T FAIL BEFORE YOU START
The thought that you cannot do it has already made you a failure unless you discard the thought on time because that thought will stop you from trying. And you know, you can’t win a fight if you don’t fight, and you definitely won’t pass a test without taking the test. Refusing to take a test makes you already fail the test.
DON’T COUNT YOUR CHICKS BEFORE THEY ARE HATCHED
“What if I fail?” Yeah so what if you fail, will you die? I’m asking you, will you die? Even if you will die, at least you died trying. You did your best, you died as a hero. What’s the point of living as a coward when everybody is still gonna die someday?
DIE A HERO
Any soldier who died in a war died as a hero, while the one who didn’t go to the war at all would never be recognized as a warrior. So if you face your fears and still fail, at least you faced it, that’s an act of bravery.
IF I DIE, I DIE. IF I FAIL, I FAIL. AT LEAST I TRIED
You probably already know the story of Queen Esther. Hew people were treated like slaves before she became queen. Her people then asked her to speak to the King to give them a proper status in the city, something no one would dare to do in those days. Queen Esther was afraid but she said, “If I perish (die), I perish.” Then she went to talk to the king. And guess what? She was favored.
THE BEST WAY TO SOLVE A PROBLE IS TO FACE IT
Let’s assume you have a plane to catch but on your way to the airport, the car broke down and stopped moving and there’s no other vehicle around. Now that’s a problem, right? So how do you solve it? Are you just going to abandon the Million dollars car just like that and keep walking? No no no.
Because the car can be stolen. And, you are not even sure you’d meet up with the plane. Then we are left with only one option which is to repair it. (Don’t worry about calling someone because there is no network coverage J ). So what now? Repair it (Assuming you can.)
In real life, you should apply this method. You always know how to do everything, you only need to learn it. That thing that pose as a problem, know about it, learn how to solve then face (solve) it.